6 Life Hacks To Boost Your Confidence Levels

Are you fear stricken when you go on the stage? Do you hesitate in expressing yourself? Do you struggle with words when dealing with people in public? Is so, then worry not, for you are not alone in this boat.

Many a time in life we might have gone through our script or maybe the lines to speak in a presentation, but then suddenly all seems lost when confronting people in that 4 by 4 conference room. Not only this, it might happen that you go to a party but prefer to take-up the silent corner and shunt yourself from all the fun. And gradually when all these things keep happening to us we start feeling low and in turn embark on a journey of self-depreciation. Overthinking, hypertension, crowd fear, and whatnot, we start getting into the vicious emending cycle of distancing ourselves from the people around, especially thinking about how others would react to it or judge you.

Let The Game Of Life Begin

And so, to all such people this a small article to remind you that you all are as amazing as anyone else in this world. Not everyone is born with the gift of the gab but then not everyone is born either with a golden heart that you possess. Not all the fingers are of the same length but does that make any of them unimportant? Absolutely, not!

So, pep-up guys and walk through this article to find some small tips with which you can charm the world again and prove the judgemental people around you, wrong.

1. Comfort Zone Alert! 

When we are in the process of self-doubt, we often prefer playing safe and, undoubtedly, that is great. But it is also important to understand that it doesn’t take much time to get addicted to the playing-in-comfort-zone style.

We Are The Best Version Of Ourselves!

And so, we must all come out of our comfort zone and do things. We must realize that its human to err but if we don’t then we even don’t grow as a person.

2. You Are The Best Version of Yourself 

One of the most important things to understand is that we don’t live on the pity of people around us and thence, it isn’t our job to live up to their expectations as well. We are as we are and we should be unapologetically ourselves in front of everyone.

In the words of Tennyson, “men may come and men may go, but life goes.” People who are real will always have real people around them who would stay with them for a lifetime. And so, we must always be as mad as we are and as awesome as we are in front of the entire world.

3. Keep A Check

How did you react to the voluminous book of mathematics in class 10 when you saw it for the first time? For most of us, we would have got bewildered. But then, we did cover the majority of the syllabus slowly and gradually. Come to think of it, it is actually applicable to every sphere of life.

Befriending Our Own Selves

Goals when broken down into fragments seem easily achievable. We must always walk towards our goal step by step. The speed with which we walk towards the destination isn’t, what is more, important is to keep walking and enjoying the journey. So, gauge your progress every day and appreciate yourself for even one step you have taken.

4. It’s Okay To Not Be Okay

Most often we are surrounded by fears and/or insecurities and we become paranoid. Not only this, but it also pushes us towards overthinking and subsequently to depression. Owing to all this, we also tend to become too harsh on ourselves.

In all such cases, we must realize that it is okay to not be okay. It is absolutely human to have fears and insecurities and we must accept that time to time they may surface and bother us. But, owing to this, we must not penalize ourselves or cut ourselves off from the world. So, gear up guys, you are not alone in the boat.

Live Life Kind Size

5. Let’s Be A Perfect Imperfectionist 

Circles are always better, for sharp edges are hurt. The concept of being perfect has been hyped about so much in films, books, albums, etc… that we have forgotten the fact none of nature’s creations are perfect.

It’s high time that we realize the perfection is a flawed concept. However, it doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t strive for it, as becoming better than what we are yesterday is a trait of progress. It is imperative to accept that we must do your work in the best possible ways, without the fear of being judged, and take every criticism constructively and work towards being better the next.

6. Simple Pleasures In Life Are Free 

Don’t you like the innocent smile of a 2-year old? Don’t you ponder that childhood was the best time of our life? Didn’t you like the nonchalant and carefree behavior of a child? I guess, most of us did. But have you ever thought as to what was the reason behind all these? Presumably, it was because they were happy.

Let’s Rock the Stage Of Life

In the course of life, we often start cribbing about things, demeaning ourselves, or being unsatisfied with our progress, and thus, we often forget to be happy. Also, in the pursuit of making everyone around us happy, we forget being happy ourselves. Thus, we need to do things that make us happy as only then can we make our listeners or audiences happy.

Life is short and thus, we should live each passing moment with exhilaration and gaiety. So, forget about being judged, let off your fears, and prepare yourself to show the world what an amazing personality you are. Be happy! Be Jubilant! Be Fabulous!

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